A blended family is a family structure that is composed of two or more adults from different backgrounds that come together, often through marriage or adoption, to form a single family unit. Blended families can be composed of a variety of combinations, including parents, children, stepparents, stepchildren, grandparents, and extended family members. This article reviews the literature on blended families, focusing on the challenges faced by these families, the benefits of blending, and strategies for successful blending.
The Challenges Faced by Blended Families
Blended families face a variety of unique challenges. These include issues of loyalty conflicts, boundary setting, and role confusion (Ahrons & Rodgers, 2006; Scharf & Scharf, 2002). Loyalty conflicts can occur when children are asked to choose between their biological parents or step-parents (Ahrons & Rodgers, 2006). Boundary setting is a challenge for many blended families, as step-parents and step-children often have difficulty determining their roles in the family (Scharf & Scharf, 2002). Role confusion can arise due to the lack of clarity about what is expected of each family member (Ahrons & Rodgers, 2006).
The Benefits of Blending
Despite the challenges faced by blended families, there are many potential benefits to coming together. Blended families can provide children with additional sources of support and guidance, as well as a greater sense of security (Ahrons & Rodgers, 2006). Blended families can also provide an opportunity for children to connect with new relatives and form meaningful relationships (Ahrons & Rodgers, 2006). Finally, blended families can provide a unique opportunity for parents to gain new skills in parenting and step-parenting (Ahrons & Rodgers, 2006).
Strategies for Successful Blending
There are several strategies that can help blended families to succeed. First, it is important for parents to take the time to learn about each other and to establish clear expectations and boundaries (Ahrons & Rodgers, 2006). Additionally, it is important to prioritize communication and collaboration among family members (Ahrons & Rodgers, 2006). Finally, it is important to take time to have fun and enjoy activities together as a family (Ahrons & Rodgers, 2006).
Conclusion
This article has reviewed the literature on blended families, focusing on the challenges faced by these families, the potential benefits of blending, and strategies for successful blending. Blended families can provide a unique opportunity for families to come together and form a strong support system. However, it is important for families to take the time to establish clear expectations, prioritize communication, and take time to enjoy activities together in order to ensure a successful transition.
References
Ahrons, C. R., & Rodgers, R. (2006). Stepfamilies. In M.E. Lamb (Ed.), The Role of the Father in Child Development (5th ed., pp. 437-472). Hoboken, NJ: Wiley.
Scharf, L. M., & Scharf, R. (2002). Blended families: Challenges and rewards. Family Relations, 51(4), 401-405.